HELP! THERE'S NOTHING LEFT ON MY "WHAT DO YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GROW UP" LIST!

HELP! THERE'S NOTHING LEFT ON MY "WHAT DO YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GROW UP" LIST!

So, maybe this is the point in life when we are supposed to enjoy the life we've built as a result of all our hard work.  Maybe, in these years, we should be focusing less on "doing," and more on "being."  Maybe this is the time for us to start enjoying what we've spent decades building...

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SAYING A FINAL GOODBYE TO MY FATHER-IN-LAW

SAYING A FINAL GOODBYE TO MY FATHER-IN-LAW

The sun was hot; incredibly hot.   As we placed the urn in the damp dirt of the small university town where he had taught physics for 40+ years, I remembered a man of impeccable integrity, subtle humor, and sheer goodness.  Then I held hands with Duncan and his family, and we sang, humbly, with only a few birds and the gentle wind as accompaniment...

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THE 7 THINGS I WISH I COULD HAVE TOLD MY NEW-MOM SELF

THE 7 THINGS I WISH I COULD HAVE TOLD MY NEW-MOM SELF

You become a mother in a split second.  There is no in between; no trainee status or learner's permit.  Only the before and the after. Some women are naturals, and find it exhilarating.  Others find it terrifying.  The rest of us are probably somewhere in between, depending on the day.  Or hour.   Or nap schedule...

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GRAND-BABY WATCH

GRAND-BABY WATCH

But most of all, up there in the attic, I felt a bittersweet, pull-at-my-heart tenderness, being so close to the tangible reminders of my children's childhood.  I was caught up in the midst of a time gone by, which seemed like yesterday, but that I knew could never come back.  Time had marched on.  I had grown older...

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